daddy's little girls

Today, on her own accord - Emma called Tim 'Dad'. It came as a huge surprise to me, and sensing my hesitation she became embarrassed and reserved. The conversation could no longer be avoided, and so we sat down and mulled over where we both stood with it. Emma is such a sensitive child, and with that I am always on edge about her reactions to change. I was very impressed when she very boldly exclaimed that she did indeed, want to call Tim 'Dad' from now on. I explained that there was absolutely no pressure to do so, and that Tim did not mind whatsoever either way - that he would love her regardless. She continued to explain that she wanted him to be her Dad, and so in turn she wanted to call him the proper name to suit such a role. It came so naturally with Sophie that there wasn't even a required thought pattern - it just happened, and we went with it. Emma is almost five - which led me to believe, she might not ever adjust to the abandonment from Ian and find a comfort with Tim. I am once again, in humble amazement of her ability to cope, heal and grow from life's unexpected upheavals. I have this incredible sense of comfort and stability since that conversation - and I can truly feel like we are our own family now. One mile stone after another - it never stops, and I am continuously amazed by what life gives me. happy hump day people!