know the difference.

You can not make someone else happy. Your only business with happiness is to bring it on yourself. You are not responsible for other peoples feelings. How you react to something, or anything, is your responsibility. No one can change you or force you to feel or do or say anything. Your actions, reactions, feelings and motions are yours - and you have to own it. Blame is far too messy, and some is bound to get on you while you're trying to put it on someone else. Take charge of your day, your life. It is no ones hands but your own. Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone grieves. You can not believe that you are the only person experiencing pain, and that no one else could ever understand. There are billions of people on this one tiny earth - and there are millions if not billions, grieving with you. It is YOUR job to change something you dont like. You can not sit around expecting someone to change it for you. All you can do with this life is make yourself happy, follow your gut, and own everything you do. It's hard - but you won't be any closer to happiness if you don't. Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.