pill popping - neglectful - bar hopping - booze hounding - sex crazed teen mom!

After 6 years of being a teen mom I am pretty weathered in the judgmental stereotyped opinions of me. I am used to the side way glances, the gasps when someone learns my age (because that is SUCH a testimonial to the kind of parent I am, obviously). What I cannot seem to get over is the difference between reactions I get when I'm with Emma alone, with both of the girls, and when I'm with just Sophie. When I'm with just Emma - most people don't notice, however I've had a few "Oh, this is your DAUGHTER!?". When I'm with both of the girls, I often get the typical looks, stares even - and the various comments about "how young I am". However what has me ticked is that when I'm with just Sophie - I get nothing! I didn't know I was old enough to have a 2 year old but not a 5 year old!? I wish someone would have told me this, so I could have followed protocol *gag*. I just want some fucking consistency. Actually what I want is for people to just bugger off and keep their oh-so-wise opinions to themselves. Its more insulting than anything - I like to think of myself as a pretty darn good momma, and for anyone to think they have a right to tell me my age has an part in that is infuriating. Screw humanity - everyone sucks. Except you, and well, maybe you too... hah